If you aren’t familiar with “Formspring,” here’s a brief description from their website:
“Send and receive anonymous questions, and learn more about people you find interesting by following their answers.”
In my opinion, the most brilliant thing Formspring has done is teaming up with Facebook so that one’s Formspring page sends my questions/replies to his or her Facebook page. People can even sign in to their Formspring page by using their Facebook login information!
The more I check out different Formspring pages, the more I really hate Formspring. Here’s why:
- It’s anonymous: most questions are harmless, but some very cowardly people ask mean questions (“Why are you so fat?” “Are you gay?” “Why are you so stupid?” etc.) because they’re “faceless” and unknown. Very cowardly.
- It feeds into narcissism: the mentality that you are the center of the world.
- If perpetuates insecurity: teenagers are already walking around silently asking “Do you like me?” and “Am I special?” Sites like Formspring only feed into this insecurity and can do some serious harm (see reason 1 above).
- It feeds the notion that you can learn all about me by reading about me over the internet (as opposed to actually spending time with me).
- It makes cyber-bullying infinitely easier, all while being anonymous.
Disclaimer: When you submit a question, you are given the option to include your Formspring account name, but most people don’t.
In the past two weeks I’ve grown increasingly fascinated by this site and have spent time checking out pages of teens I know and teens I don’t know – and I haven’t seen one mean comment with someone’s actual name attached to it so you know who it’s from.
Like almost anything on the internet, some people’s Formspring pages are completely clean and they have not been harassed. But it seems like those people are the minority and are very lucky (so far). My “professional” opinion is to STAY AWAY from Formspring.me.
The Bottom Line:
I see very few benefits from having your own Formspring page, but many downsides to having one. If I was a parent of a teenager today, I would allow my son/daughter to have a Facebook page (if I had complete access to it and could look through it with my son/daughter to ask questions about different comments, pictures, etc.), but I would absolutely NOT let my son/daughter have a page on Formspring.me.